Friday, October 6, 2017

Being Skillful

Hi! Thanks for stopping by my blog. We can't deny the fact that we all grew up without learning a skill. Learning how to write, tieing a shoe lace, reading....... e.t.c all of these are skills. Growing up and learning new skills tend to be hard on some of us, because of different challenges. Don't give in to the challenges, you can create what ever you want through your mind and with the help of the Holy Spirit. Your mind can either break you or energise you, it doesn't matter how long you take to learn the skill, all that Matters is that you are putting great effort in achieving something worth it and you will come out victorious in an exponential way. Keep being positive no matter the storm, you need to be the storm. 
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Tuesday, September 12, 2017

How to look expensive


LUXE CHIC || HOW TO LOOK EXPENSIVE!


 

Ever looked at people like Kim Kardashian and wonder how they manage to look so simple, not too much going on…but so damn rich! From hair to toe just oozes money, even if you just read in the news that she is rocking a $9 bodycon from some mall down the road, she just always tends to pull of the ‘millionaire’ look. Well…trust us at WLS! We found the secret! Listen up class! Here are a the rules to follow to achieve the luxe chic look:

 

RULE 1 : NEUTRALS ALWAYS LOOK ELEVATED

Kim Kardashian & Micah Gianneli are a few of the style icons that always give us that rich and polished vibe…what do they all have in common? They keep to a particular colour palette…Neutrals! They never stray too far from a neutral colour palette, featuring soft, buttery tans, grays, browns, nudes and khakis.

RULE 2: BLACK ON BLACK ON BLACK!

As a wise man once said “All black everything”. And boy, we couldn’t agree more if we do say so ourselves! (See what we did there? *wink*) If you are gunning for ultimate ‘millionaire babe’ glam, black from head to toe with some bold accessories to break up the monotone is the answer, or better yet…minimal accessories!

 

RULES 3: STAY POINTED…OR STRAPPED

The best shoes to rock to get the upscale luxe chic appearance, are either pointy toe shoes or strappy sandals! Apart from the fact that pointy toe shoes are a staple from the luxury brand Christian Louboutin, they elongate your legs well. Also, show a bit of skin by exposing those toes! Strappy sandals, lace-ups and peep toes are always a good idea.

 

RULE 4: ROSE X GOLD

Nothing screams “RICH” more than gold and rose gold chunky accessories…even if they are cheap *wink*. So opt for gold or rose gold custome jewelry over the silvers/beaded ones.

 

RULES 5: MONOTONOUS

Very similar to the “black on black rule, but in this case…we are talking one of any colour (preferably soft or muted) from head to toe. If the colour is not solid enough or is not a primary colour, the best way to wear it is by mixing it up in various shades.

 

DRESSES

   

 

JACKETS 

   

 

SHOES 

   

 

JEWELLERY 

 

   

 

So there you have it! 5 Cardinal rules to looking like the ultimate rich girl!

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If you can't, then contact 07031089251 to place your orders. 

 

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Friday, August 25, 2017

The Virtue of Charcoal

THE VIRTUE OF CHARCOAL

Charcoal is one of the most disregarded products at home. We only see the need for it when it is time to set fire for Banku.
However, if you really need first aid, charcoal is something you need to have on you all the time, you might not know this but it is one of the most medicinal products you can have at home due to its poison extraction ability.
In case you never gave it much attention, this is the time to do so.
Here are *14 benefits* of charcoal you never thought about.

1. Odour Prevention
Does your shoe smell bad? just get some charcoal and put it in them. Do you have any bad smell in your room? Drop some charcoal where you suspect the smell could be coming from. Does your fridge or freezer smell? Put a piece of charcoal in it. Do you have strong body odour? Just make a powder out of charcoal and use, thank us later.
Charcoal is very good at getting rid of bad smell. Ever wondered why your parents always scooped out the ash from the coal pot to pour in the hen coop or toilet before sweeping? That was to get rid of the odour.

2. Keeping Food Fresh
If you want your vegetables to be fresh all the time, just make a solution out of charcoal and leave your vegetables in them. Thank us later.

3. Toxins Removal from Food
These days, people complain about the use of fertilizers on plants and vegetables, making them unwholesome and poisonous. If you have charcoal, you don’t need to worry about this, all you need to do is leave the vegetables in a charcoal solution overnight and it’ll take care of the toxins. If you suspect any food contains too many chemicals, just drop them in a charcoal solution for some hours and you’re good to go.

4. Teeth Whitening
If you want to whiten your teeth, pay no attention to all these adverts on whitening chemicals and technology, just get yourself some charcoal and grab hold of a plantain stalk, make a powder out of the charcoal, mash the tip of the plantain stalk, dip it into the charcoal powder and brush your teeth with it for a week, thank us later.

5. Restoration of Soup That Went Bad
Did your groundnut soup or palm nut soup go bad? No need to worry about pouring it all away. Just put it back on fire and drop a piece of charcoal in it. This will extract all the bad taste and smell and restore the soup to its fresh state.

6. Detoxification
Do you have a hangover out of a drink out with friends the previous night, just have some charcoal with you and chew on it. To make it more effective, make a nice solution out of it and drink, you’re good to go.

7. Neutralization of Alcohol
If you mistakenly did some wild mixing and feel it can knock you out, just add some charcoal to the mixture and your problem is solved. Or if you took in too much alcohol, just drink some charcoal solution and you’re good to go.

8. Healing Wounds
Do you have a situation where someone’s wound has become so infected to the state doctors are saying they have to cut the affected area? Don’t stress over it, get a large amount of charcoal powder and pour it on the wound. This will extract all the poison from the wound and also help it heal faster. If you have a cut and you want to treat it fast, just get some powdered charcoal and pour on it.

9. Water Filtration
Do you feel your water is contaminated? You don’t need all these products on the market, charcoal can do better, just drop some amount of it in it. Don’t worry about the colour, it is safe, you can even chew on charcoal. It is far safer than eating chicken from KFC.

10. Skin Cleansing
Do you have pimples, acne or any skin disease you really want to get rid of or do you want a very smooth face or skin? All you need is charcoal. Make a thick solution out of it and smear it on your body and leave it on for some hours before taking your bath. It will leave your skin smooth and fresh.

11. Stain Removal
Do you have some stubborn stain in your kitchen, washroom or on your tiles? You actually need charcoal to get rid of it. I know you’re imagining how this black stainy product can actually remove stains right? Just try it, it works like magic.

12. Getting Rid of a Bloated Stomach
If you ate or drank something and feel bloated, charcoal is the best solution to get rid of the bloating.

13. Getting Rid of Bad Cholesterol In You
Making a solution out of it and drinking helps eliminate all the bad cholesterol you have stored in you.

14. Ulcer Treatment
Charcoal can treat all the ulcers out there you can think of including stomach ulcer. Just make it a habit to always chew on some.

Activated Charcoal
Activated charcoal is also useful but the above benefits are from using simple charcoal.
You cannot make activated charcoal at home. It is a manufactured product. It is actually a drug and available in tablets to deal with poisoning in clinics. Luckily, the best type is derived from coconut shell. Bioresources Institute of Nigeria (BION) at Umuna, Imo State has initiated the processing of food and drug grade activated charcoal under GMP conditions, to be realized as soon as the target specifications are met.

Activated charcoal can interfere with the absorption nutrients, supplements and prescription medications. Take activated charcoal 90 minutes to two hours prior to meals, supplements and prescription medications. Potential adverse interactions with the following drugs can occur: naltrexone (used for alcohol and opioid dependence), acrivastine, bupropion, carbinoxamine, fentanyl, hydrocodone, meclizine, morphine, methadone, morphine sulfate liposome, mycophedone, oxymorphone, suvorexant, tapendol, unexlidinium, acetaminophin, tricyclic antidepressants, theophylline. When selecting activated charcoal, it's vital that you know what it's made from. Not all activated charcoal supplements are created equally. Look for activated charcoal made from coconut shells or identified wood species that have ultra-fine grains. In the powdered from, many products have added artificial sweeteners to make them more palatable; avoid these. Artificial sweeteners are loaded with chemicals and frankly speaking, it doesn't make sense to take activated charcoal to get your body rid of chemicals and toxins if it's loaded with chemicals. Sweeten it naturally if desired with fresh juice or of natural sweetener.

Sunday, August 13, 2017

It's not all about Sex in Marriage

Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how important sex is in marriage.

When you look at how aggressive men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT SEX."
Many young girls think because they are sexually active and experience they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit. But submission is what men need, not sex. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose you.
What does the Holy Bible  say, "wife, submit to your husband." The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies in our days call submission as "control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh." If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be or poor he is.

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely. There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every true man does not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the QUEEN you want to be but when it comes to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid nothing dey happen. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen and also be his maid not mind all those big mouth ladies who come online to pretend by advising you to do something they won't dare in their homes.

I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, and may God direct the right men to your path.

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

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Monday, July 31, 2017

Could Make-up help boost your exam results?

Could make-up help boost your exam results?

31st July 2017 – Wearing make-up may make you feel smarter and could even help students achieve better exam marks, say psychologists.

Recent studies have shown how sales of beauty products have defied recessions and economic downturns because of the way they can boost self-esteem in troubled times.

Lipstick effect

This has led to the notion coined by journalists as the 'lipstick effect'.

As psychologists have shown that positive emotions can improve academic performance, a team from Harvard Medical School in the US and the D'Annunzio University of Chieti-Pescara in Italy set out to test whether make-up could directly enhance academic performance.

The researchers recruited 186 female first-year university students and divided them into 3 groups.

Cosmetics, colouring and music

All the participants sat a simulated multiple-choice university exam about general psychology. Before the test:

Those in the first group were invited to apply make-up as they might normally do before going out.Members of the second group were asked to colour in a black-and-white drawing of a face as though they were applying cosmeticsParticipants in the third group listened to Mozart's Eine Kleine Nacht Musik – music previously linked to boosting mood – and copy some of the notes on a xylophone

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The study, published in the journal Cogent Psychology, found a significant improvement in test results among the group who listened to the 'positive sounding' music compared to those who coloured in the face. However, those in the make-up group performed best.

Those in the make-up group also self-reported feeling more beautiful than those in the other 2 groups.

Asked about their mood, analysis showed a higher score for the make-up and the listening to music group compared to the face-colouring group.

Enhanced self-esteem

"All together, these results, could lead [us] to speculate that wearing make-up could have increased the participants' level of self-beauty perceived, consequently enhancing self-esteem, resulting in improvement of cognitive performance compared to the other groups", the authors conclude.

They say further research is needed to test whether make-up has longer lasting effects on cognitive performance and what methods might work to boost academic performance among male students.

SOURCES: Women's Mag
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Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Effective Communication

How To Effectively Communicate

Communication plays a very important role in achieving vision. Your ability to effectively communicate is key to success and the following will enable you become an excellent communicator.

1. Build the relationship first - always When a great communicator approaches an audience, he/she takes the time to say, “good morning” and “how’s your day going?” “Trust you had a most excellent night rest? etc". The effect of the relationship-building forays is incalculable. 2. Friendliness: Through a friendly tone, a personal question, or simply a smile, you will encourage your audience to engage in open and honest communication with you. It's important to be nice and polite. Learn to use the word "KINDLY".

3. Clarity and Concision: Good communication means saying just enough - don't say too little or talk too much. Try to convey your message in as few words as possible. Say what you want clearly and directly. If you ramble on, your listener will either tune you out or will be unsure of exactly what you want. Think about what you want to say before you say it; this will help you to avoid talking excessively and/or confusing your audience.

4. Confidence: It is important to be confident in all of your interactions with others. Confidence ensures your listener that you believe in and will follow through with what you are saying. Exuding confidence can be as simple as making eye contact or using a firm but friendly tone (avoid making statements sound like questions). Of course, be careful not to sound arrogant or aggressive. Be sure you are always listening to and empathizing with the other person.

5.Nonverbal Communication: Your body language, eye contact, hand gestures, and tone all color the message you are trying to convey. A relaxed, open stance (arms open, legs relaxed), and a friendly tone will make you appear approachable, and will encourage others to speak openly with you. Eye contact is also important; you want to look the person in the eye to demonstrate that you are focused on the person and the conversation (however, be sure not to stare at the person, which can make him or her uncomfortable). Also pay attention to other people's nonverbal signals while you are talking. Often, nonverbal signals convey how a person is really feeling. For example, if the person is not looking you in the eye, he or she might be uncomfortable or hiding the truth. Know when someone is tired or in an hurry and decide on how best you can convey your message or book another appointment

6. Avoid argument : Being a good listener is one of the best ways to be a good communicator and helps avoid argument. You can only get what you give. Keep an open mind to know how best to answer questions but avoid questions that stirs up argument. Be wise, be diplomatic and tactfully handle such scenes.

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Friday, July 14, 2017

Me just being Inspirational

You have got to Live the way Jesus lived to inspire others. The purpose for our living on Earth is to Dominate the earth,Manage it and win souls for Christ.

Monday, July 10, 2017

Simple Life Rules That Make Life Much Better

Simple Life Rules That Make Life Much Better



We only live once, and sometimes, we forget to make the best of it. Hectic schedules and busy social lifes often make us take things for granted, but life can be so much better and easier on you when you live ny these simple life 'rules'. Guaranteed you'll feel less stressed, more grateful and a lot more positivity comig your way. Let's take a look at these 5 simple life rules!

Do not worry
It's often easier said than done, but letting go of things makes you so much less worried and stress free. Sometimes it's best to let things be and trust in the fact that everything happens for a reason and things will fall into place. Whether it is about school, work or your relationship status. Often, when we let go of things and stop worrying, the unexpected happens and more good things come your way.

Don't get irritated so quickly
People nowadays are so uptight, it takes the slightest thing to get someone annoyed and worked up. Don't allow that to happen to you. You can get irritated over the smallest things, but when you see it in perspective and you realize that there are way more serious problems in the world,  will you still let something or someone get to you? Probably not!

Expect less
When you have less expectations (of others) you won't get let down as easily. Realizing that nobody is the same, there's a big chance people do things with the best intentions but they might do it in a different way than you would. And there's nothing wrong with that. When you don't expect people to think or act the same as you, you won't get dissapointed that easily. 

Give more
Giving more is such an easy thing to do to make every day a good one. You can always start with smiling to others, doing something good for someone else, helping others out more. When you give more, you will receive more. When you give others positivity and good vibes, that's what you'll receive more of too. It can be in the smallest things to make the most out of your day :)

What do you think of these life rules? Share your thoughts in the comments down below :)

Monday, June 19, 2017

Relationship and Misconceptions

Relationship and Misconceptions

Deception is to think that a man who loves you won't want to touch you. You hear Christian ladies say If he loves you, he won't even think of having sex with you as a Christian.The truth is, irrespective of a man's status or religious inclination, once he develops interest in you, the subject of wanting you is already in the wings, even though it may lie dormant...
A man who loves you will definitely want to have sex with you! In fact, the deeper and more intense the love is, the more he wants to consummate his love for you quickly. It is both a natural and a supernatural order, once the mind is there, the body naturally follows. The difference however between the carnal and spiritual man is that, while they both feel and want the same thing, the spiritual man has control over his mind and body and as such won't want to defy or defile you. The natural man has no such control measures and is liable to follow the direction of his erection.So if you have been in that relationship for a while and you are both keeping yourselves, don't assume that he is so spiritual that he can't touch you and won't touch you.
The bottom line is this: Don't be gullible to the extent that you believe nothing would happen, even if he can speak in tongues from here to the pacific. Watch out for signs- of absolute self-control and respect for you in the area of sex. I am not talking about you affirming this by saying he has never had an erection near you, in this case you even have to be sure he is not suffering from erectile dysfunction. In fact, ask him to go and do a test if your church doesn't normally request for it. Is it as serious as that? Yeah, it is very serious. Don't base your findings on the absence of erection, let it be firmly assured by the conditioning of his heart.
Is he a Christian brother? Watch out for the fear of God in his life, that's what will keep and save you both. Look out for the moment he withdraws his hands and keeps them in his pockets, look out for the periods his breathing becomes heavy and he turns away momentarily from you, look out for the times you are supposed to meet and he cancels your meeting, look out for the fear of God and the restraining ability of the Holy Spirit. In those moments, help him as you can- in demeanor and comportment, dressing and carriage, words and conversations But most importantly, help him on your knees. Help him approach heaven from your own end.Are you thinking that is much work? Actually, the benefit is more of yours than his.
Keep It Pure!

The Woman Men Desires

The Woman Men Desire..👍

1. There is a kind of woman a man will marry and he will never end up poor, not because she has millions of Dollors, Pounds or Euros but because she has the true wealth within her. She possesses wisdom.

2. There is a kind of a woman a man will marry and he will experience peace till death, irrespective of the storms of life. A calm dove.

3. There is a woman whose battles are fought on her knees and not on her mouth and her enemies are known by her,not her husband, or even her kids but the devil himself knows and is scared of her because she is a praying woman.

4. There is a woman who is not a gossiper, because of her uprightness her husband is known in the gate and sitteth among the elders of the land.

5. There is a kind woman whose hands have been trained for various Enterprise, skillful in business and never lazy. She works tirelessly to make sure her children are well fed, protected, educated and blessed.

6.There is a kind of woman who is more wealthy and educated than her husband yet very respectful and submissive. A woman who is aware that women can lead in all other sectors of lives expect the home, a seasoned Professor but yet, unconstitutionally submissive at home.

7. There is a kind of woman who knows how to handle her husband on bed and make him to be sexually satisfied and fulfilled. She doesn't use sex to punish her husband just because they had misunderstanding..She fulfils her sexual responsibilities to her husband, a true lover, she shows great commitment to marriage.

8. There is a kind of woman who manages her home well. She is hard working,focused, prayerful and respectful.. She's a great cook, co-adviser to the husband. A perfect home manager.

9. There is a kind of woman who is very supportive to her husband's visions and work tirelessly to see the fulfillment of that vision.

10. There is a kind of woman that God has made the bread winner of her family but yet she is very respectful, submissive and obedient to her husband. she's very industrious. Like Sarah, call her husband my lord...

11. There is a kind of woman who doesn't complain nor nag when her husband is misbehaving but always on her knees interceding for him until change takes place.

12. There is a kind of woman who never hears gossip neither gossip. She'll never allow any third party to come in between her and her husband especially when they have conflicts and misunderstanding.She is quick to forgive and forget. Her language is always,Am sorry,I was wrong,I didn't meant to hurt you,please forgive me👍She values her marriage more than her ego. She can do anything to save her marriage because she knows that there are other woman out there, praying and waiting for her to leave her husband's house so that they can occupy her position.

Finally, Never underestimate your power as a woman. Don't be reduced to nothing and worthless by meaningless singers out there that thinks you are men's problem and equivalent to money or sex. There is more to you than meet the eyes. Stay in God's word. Real women abound..

Be That Virtuous woman!!!STAY BLESSED

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE: TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:
TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future!

3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS

Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.

7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage.

Friday, June 2, 2017

Wisdom For Ladies

Young lady listen up;

Stop giving another girl privileges she necessarily do not deserve. The day you start to complain about another girl texting, calling, pinging and facebooking your man, you naturally equate the girl to yourself and when you do this excessively, you are saying "She's worth more than me".

No matter, how beautiful, intelligent, spiritual or even connected a lady is, she should be treated as one of those girls. Ignore her and i mean ignore her.

No matter how hard you try, if she will take him away, she will take him away.

What you should do daily is to, make your man know you more, showcase the potentials you carry and be the best you can be.

Let her be as trendy as Beyonce, wayward as Rihana, colourful as Nicki Minaj, beautiful as Genevieve or even curvy as Omotola, talented as Adele, educated as Grace Alele Williams, your man will be your man.

But the problem is; You immediately make your man see the beauty and strength in her when you start to nag/complain/bother about her.

Anytime, you see her text messages, calls, pings and inboxes, smile and say "Baby, one girl needs your help here" Do this when it becomes unavoidable (if you cannot totally ignore), I would rather wish you just lock up, and watch your man becomes an Al Jazeera correspondent, reporting every discusssion with her to you bit by bit. I swear!

Congratulations to all ladies who possess more wisdom than boobs.

You know I Cherish you...

#WisdomForLadies

Friday, May 26, 2017

Forget RoseGold:Mauve Is THE Color This Season

Forget RoseGold:Mauve Is THE Color This Season



Rose gold was the color last year. From the rose gold version of the iPhone to jewellery, furniture and even hair colors. Rose gold was the bomb. However it's not an extremely different color as rose gold, this new shade of pink this season is hot and happening. Say hellow to everythingmauve now!

The color mauve comes in different shades, but it's basically a mix of purple, pink and beige shades. Again, everything from our clothes to our hair, nails, accessories and makeup is allowed to be mauve colored. It's just so pretty, not as girly as rose gold and it's a perfect color to wear with basic colors like black and white. And of course: demim! Or what about silver and golden accents? Yes, you probably understand why this is a color to go wild for! Take a look below to get inspired on how to rock the mauve trend this spring and summer.


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Thursday, May 25, 2017

Women: Keep the Faith.

Every person has a moment in their lives when they face seeming impossibilities. This is when God does His best work as you yield yourself to Him. Like Mary, to take the posture that you are open to God and all His possibilities sets you up for the miraculous to occur. And yet how compassionate and sensitive God is. He knows it is fearsome to believe for the impossible alone. He often provides “an Elizabeth” to walk with you. A spiritual midwife, if you will, who confirms the promises of God and will help you birth your promise.

Though women are intuitive by nature, it is still challenging to exercise faith in the face of a situation others might question. You may find yourself back in the garden with the serpent whispering, “Did God really mean what He said?” Even when you’re clear about what He said, there is a tendency to question, to second-guess. Faith simply says yes and follows God’s directions no matter if it goes against the grain of your intellect. In the fullness of time God’s promises will manifest.

What miracle are you believing God for today?

God Knows what's Best

As members of the kingdom of God, everything we do affects everyone everywhere all the time. We are part of a uniquely connected fellowship that has a profound effect on the world. Our lives yielded to God will create lasting legacies that further His far-reaching plan for humanity. Therefore, our choices must be weighed in light of this fact and our decisions prayerfully made. We can’t afford to lean on our own understanding by being moved by what we see, influenced by our peers, constrained by the urgency of time, or dependent on our own ideas of what our lives are supposed to look like. Instead we must believe and trust that God knows what is best. That the things He prevents are for our protection. What He allows are for our benefit and the furtherance of His kingdom.

God will orchestrate the circumstances of our lives to give us joy and fulfillment while glorifying Himself. When we do things His way, we will never live in regret. Truly the blessing of the Lord makes us rich and adds no sorrow.

RECESSION: WE’VE NEVER HAD IT THIS BAD -REP

RECESSION: WE’VE NEVER HAD IT THIS BAD -REP

2017/05/26 03:15

Recession: We’ve never had it this bad -Rep

— 26th May 2017

By Tony Udemba

Oghene Emma Egoh is a member of the House of Representatives, representing Amuwo Odofin federal constituency of Lagos State, on the platform of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).He stated his concern for the growing hunger in the land and the discriminatory approach by the present government in its war against corruption, just as he described the whistle-blower policy as capable of reducing the spate of corruption in the country. He also spoke on insecurity and other topical issues.What are your views concerning the fight against corruption?There is no doubt that the government is doing its best in the on-going fight against corruption in the country, especially given the spate of discoveries of huge sums of funds both in local and foreign currencies  in the houses and business premises of some yet to be identified persons. Certainly with these discoveries,   the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, is doing its best in fighting corruption which has continued to ravage the nation for too long. While this is going on,  a major concern  to most Nigerians is the pattern of discoveries of these huge sums of cash,  as exemplified by grave silence maintained by the EFCC on the ownership of the discovered funds , the premises from where the funds were hidden.  Simply put, EFFCC must tell the public the names of the owners of the recovered funds, as well as the owners of the properties where the funds were traced to. These are some of the questions on the lips of most Nigerians.Nigerians must be saved the puzzle of guessing about the ownership of the funds.  It is not just enough to tell us that they discovered billions in some apartments or premises in Ikoyi, Victoria Island or some other places, EFCC should go the extra mile and ensure that the names of those behind these hidden funds are made public.  The truth is that everyone is getting tired of these unending entertainment going on in the country.  Rather, everyone is anxiously waiting to know the true owners of the discovered funds.What is your take on the perceived targeting of PDP members in the anti-corruption war?There is no gainsaying that some members of our great party, PDP, are being targeted in the on-going anti-corruption war. We are greatly concerned about  this sad development going on in the country, and continue to insist that those agencies that are in charge of the fight against corruption must operate in line with the laws and constitution of the nation. In fighting corruption emphasis must be placed on ensuring that the due process of the law is followed, and certainly not in victimizing political opponents or perceived enemies of the government.  What we want is fair treatment to everyone irrespective of political inclinations.A situation where political opponents are hounded  into detentions, tried in the media, even before proper investigations start, is totally unacceptable. Certainly that is not the proper way of fighting corruption in the country.How would you rate the whistleblower’s policy of the government?I would want to commend the government for the introduction of the whistleblower policy, and most importantly for the successes so far recorded by the policy. At least we have seen, and continue to see, also on weekly basis lots of discoveries of huge sums of cash, both in local currencies been hidden by unknown individuals and personalities, in people’s homes and business premises.   It has not been too long that this policy was introduced in the nation, but you can see the amazing results recorded so far.What is your reaction to the proposed introduction of modular refinery system in the Niger Delta region?The proposed policy by the federal government to set up modular refineries in the oil-rich Niger Delta region is a welcome development. If fully implemented by the government it will certainly bring to a terminal end many years of illegal oil bunkering and youths restiveness in the area. The policy also has the potentials to address issues of unemployment, militancy, cultism and other violent criminal activities in the region.  But, like I said for this policy to be successful, the government must firstly, undertake a comprehensive census of operators of illegal petroleum refineries in the area to ensure that it has an accurate data of operators of such illegal refineries, as well as their locations.Secondly, government has to ensure that these illegal operators are part of the new arrangement, and that  they are carried along as stakeholders in the project. The truth is that if they are carried along and made to be part of the modular refineries policy arrangement of the government , certainly all the issues of crude oil theft and illegal oil refining will stop, and become a thing of the past. Again, government must ensure that these operators of illegal refineries are re-orientated and trained to understand the concept and operations of modular refineries. While the government might be considering foreign technologies for the modular refineries, my advice is that it should consider some of our local technologies with the capability of providing such solutions.What is your take on the economic difficulties in the country?It is unfortunate that many Nigerians are passing through hard times and find it increasingly difficult to fend for their families. If you go round the country you don’t need to be informed about the level of hardship and the many challenges our citizens are passing through. We have never had it this bad.The costs of food items and other essential commodities are in the upwards swing and simply out of the reach of the ordinary citizens. People are really suffering in the land, and I would like to urge the federal government to as a matter of urgency come up with palliative measures to bring down the costs of living and cushion the effect of the current difficulties in the country.Another face of difficulties in the country is the astronomical rise in the number of unemployed persons in the county. The growing number of unemployed persons in the country is simply too alarming and a big problem for the nation if not properly managed . Though this presents a critical picture for the future of the nation and its socio-economic development, there is no doubt that the situation demands an urgent attention of the governments at all levels.  There is the need for the government to urgently come  up with effective policies and initiatives aimed at boosting employment opportunities in order to positively engage the huge number  of job seekers.What is your take on the growing insecurity in the country?It is quite unfortunate that for some years now the nation has been grappling with  the challenges of insecurity of various shapes ranging from  terrorist attacks, armed robberies, kidnappings, herdsmen attacks, youth restiveness  and other types of violent crimes. The situation is further made difficult to curb due to the rising army of unemployed persons and the challenges of an under-equipped police force.   The truth is that with a huge population of unemployed persons , it might be difficult to tame the increasing rise in  armed robberies and other  violent crimes across the land.Again, if you  look at the sophistication of crimes  today in the country, you will no doubt agree with me that there is the urgent need for the federal  government to provide the police with adequate funding to enable them procure sophisticated weapons and equipment to frontally combat  criminal activities  across the country. I know that the government is doing its best in the fight against insecurity, but I strongly believe that the government has to do more in order to safeguard lives and property in Nigeria.What are your views on the frequent executive – legislators faceoff ?The three arms of the government work together, and act  as checks and balances to one another for the smooth running of the government. There is no doubt that there may be disagreements between the executive and legislative from time to time, but certainly these disagreements does not mean that they are fighting or quarrelling. One thing you must know is that in democracy there is bound to be agreements and disagreements. That is the beauty of our democracy.What is your take on the crises facing PDP?Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, is like a big family, and you will agree with me that even in big families people are bound to have quarrel. But, the most important thing is that sooner after such quarrels they still have to come together in reconciliation to forge ahead, and even be more united than before.  Though some PDP members are in court today,  I am assuring you that sooner or later, the matter will be settled and PDP will be back again in full force. Certainly I have no doubt in my mind that our great party, PDP will come out of this crises to become more stronger and united as the biggest political party in Nigeria and Africa. I am calling all our members to continue to keep faith with the party. Our party is repositioning itself to retake power in 2019.

Actress Juliet Ibrahim Shows off Belly in hot photo

ACTRESS JULIET IBRAHIM SHOWS OFF BELLY IN HOT PHOTO
2017/05/26 06:22

Ghanaian Actress, Juliet Ibrahim shared the hot black and white photo on her IG page.

She captioned it;

“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes… Good morning World , it’s a rainy day, be safe out there… ”

Source: Instagram

The Fate of the Fast and Furious

The Fate of the Furious
The Fast and Furious franchise was and still is an amazing success. Not only is it a delight to see these amazing drivers enjoy the fastest racing experience, but the simple fact that you get to see Fast 8 after the unfortunate passing of Paul Walker is extraordinary. We can imagine that this will be an amazing tribute, but at the same time we do know based on the trailers that the action is going to be off the rails.
The reason is rather simple. F&F movies were all about family and respect, but it seems that in this new installment we will have characters turning of a new leaf. This is certainly something that will bring in quite a bit of a challenge for the entire team.
The Fate of the Furious – Official Trailer
Based on the movie plot, Dom and Letty are on the honeymoon. Brian and Mia are retired from the game and the crew is exonerated. However, when it seems that the team is finally settling in, new challenges are coming in front of them and many of these are unlike anything they have ever seen.
Dom is seduced by a mysterious woman and he ends up back in the world of crime. He can’t escape for some reason, and this does bring in front some unique new challenges that everyone is going to overcome in one way or another.
Dom has to betray the people that are very close to him and, as you can imagine, this will bring in front a multitude of new challenges that you have to face along the way. It clearly shows that the movie will step away from the idea of the family at least in the beginning and it will focus more on notions like betrayal.
Aside from this plot, little is known about the movie Fast and Furious 8 at this point, but we can imagine that a bit more details will come from the trailers. What we do know is that Jason Statham’s character is becoming a good guy in the movie and he will team up with the Rock in one of the most interesting and exciting moments that everyone would like to see.
Plus, since the movie is set to focus quite a lot on robberies, you will find some very interesting mechanics and ideas to be found in here. That’s what makes the experience so interesting to begin with, the fact that The Fate of the Furious does tend to bring in some new set pieces, unique and action packed battles as well as plenty of drama that everyone will have to deal with at this point.
What does the Dom betrayal mean for the family, how can this bring in front a new leaf for the team? It’s hard to say, but what we do know is that The Fate of the Furious is set to be an explosive and action-packed movie. It’s certainly going to bring in front some interesting new ideas to the team and Charlize Theron’s villain seems downright crazy, which is exactly what you want to have in such a movie.
Release Date: April 14, 2017
Rating: R
Year   :April 14, 2017By   :United States of AmericaDirector   :F. Gary GrayGenre   :Action, Crime, ThrillerDuration   :160 minutesBudget   :$250 MillionAge   :PG-13

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The Real deal on Love and Men

Friend, never give a man the luxury of wasting your time. Every day you spend with him is a day you’re off the market. Some men will string you along because they are selfish. They don’t want you permanently, but they like what you add to their lives. If they can feed you just enough carrots to keep you around, that works for them. Don’t let them. You’re simply putting off the hurt that’s coming your way. It will arrive eventually, and you’ll be more angry at yourself for allowing the relationship to drag on the way it did.

Keep your goal in mind. Set a time limit based on a reasonable dating period and how long you can afford to wait. Stick to your deadline, and be willing to walk. This is a gamble you must take because your future is at stake. You can’t afford to allow someone to have that much power over your future if he is not willing to make a full investment. Think of it this way. He is standing in the way of what you truly desire—a lifetime of love with a partner who sees and recognizes your worth. And that is a prize great enough to put a relationship on the line for.

The Ultimate Love Experience

The he ultimate love you can experience begins by observing the first two commandments as revealed by Jesus. The first is “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). The next is to “love your neighbor as yourself” (12:31). Fulfilling these is a full-time job that will take you a lifetime.

Perhaps we spend way too much time looking for someone to love us the way we should love ourselves. Too much time waiting for someone else to complete the picture in our lives when God already has. As we are consumed with love for God, we get a healthy appreciation for whom He created us to be, and we become whole in Him. That is transferred to how we treat others. Everything else becomes a pleasant addition to a cup already running over.

As we walk in expectation and a spirit of gratitude, God gives us the grace we need to live joyfully each and every day no matter what our current status. Finding love should never be complicated, just God orchestrated. Trust His timing. Trust the fact that He created you desirable and lovable. Trust that God has the best plans for your life. Trust Him because the best is yet to come.

The Game of Love

Colossians 3:15 says to “let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” Another translation of this verse urges you to allow peace to be the referee or umpire in your heart. This makes sense if you have ever been to a baseball game. The player hits the ball and takes off running. The fielder catches the ball and throws it to first base. The runner and ball get there at the same time. The fans who are rooting for the runner insist that he was safe. Those rooting for the defensive team insist that he was out. Both believe what they saw.

The point is, what you want has a lot to do with what you see. If you want this person to be right for you, you tend to only see things that confirm your feelings. But if you allow peace to be the umpire, your heart will be able to rest in the fact that at the right time the right man will declare his love and commitment for you. That peace will enable you to see things as they really are and make the right call on your relationship.

When the runner and the ball have arrived at the base at the same time, no matter what the fans believe they saw, the umpire gives a signal for either safe or out. If you do not have peace about the person you are thinking about marrying, you need to declare them out. Unrest is the Holy Spirit trying to tell you that your heart is not safe with this person. You should not marry him in this case, even if he appears to be perfect for you. He is possibly the right person, but perhaps it is the wrong time. The bottom line: If you do not have peace, then something is wrong. You must wait!

Once again, this brings us back to the concept of being whole. You will know the peace of God about marriage if you have peace in general. If peace isn’t a regular aspect of your life, will you know when it leaves? When the right person enters your life, your peace will remain. When the wrong person enters, your peace will leave.

Source: Michelle Hammond

Wednesday, May 24, 2017

He loves you still

“Our failings are cruel voices that accuse and demoralize us. They tell us that we are no longer worthy of God’s love and attention. That we’ve messed up big time. That there is no redemption of our circumstance. Our self-worth plummets, and we begin to agree with our accuser that there is nothing good in us, nothing worth salvaging. And then Jesus comes with a new commission for our lives, heaping blessings on top of our incredulity that He still loves us in spite of our foolishness. He extends His grace to us for a new beginning and a better tomorrow, and we’re made a little stronger and a whole lot wiser. THANK GOD FOR HIS MERCIES, for He knows we are but dust. Thank God that He is the God of as many chances as we need to get it right!”

God Speaks, all you need to do is listen.

“Shortcomings truly do cause us to “act out,” to overcompensate for the me we think we should be. Trying to measure up to the standards of others can be debilitating because we will undoubtedly fall short of their expectations. The beauty we can find in the midst of our own imagined failings is that God loves us just the way we are. He doesn’t think we’re too tall, too short, too fat, too thin, too dark, too light, too ugly, or too anything. He just sees His child struggling for affirmation, for the reassurance that we’re all right. And based on our relationship with Him, He gently reminds us that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. Deliberately crafted just the way we are to be a unique member of His divine family. One that He welcomes with open arms because all of our imperfections become perfect in the light of His love.”

EUROPA LEAGUE FINAL: WHY I STARTED WITH MATA, SMALLING – MOURINHO

EUROPA LEAGUE FINAL: WHY I STARTED WITH MATA, SMALLING – MOURINHO

Manchester United boss, Jose Mourinho, has revealed why he chose Juan Mata to start in place of Anthony Martial for the Europa League final against Ajax.

The Spain midfielder was an unused substitute for their second leg semi-final against Celta Vigo and did not feature at all against Crystal Palace on Sunday.

Anthony Martial played the second half against The Eagles, but started on the bench on Wednesday evening.

Speaking to BT Sport prior to kick off, the Portuguese explained that his decision was purely tactical.

“Juan Mata is in,” Mourinho said.

“It is important to start with experience and a brain and then go to speed and freshness.”

The United manager also explained why he picked Chris Smalling instead of Phil Jones.

“I was pushed to choose Chris Smalling and not Phil Jones because he recovered from injury one week quicker.”

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