Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Effective Communication

How To Effectively Communicate

Communication plays a very important role in achieving vision. Your ability to effectively communicate is key to success and the following will enable you become an excellent communicator.

1. Build the relationship first - always When a great communicator approaches an audience, he/she takes the time to say, “good morning” and “how’s your day going?” “Trust you had a most excellent night rest? etc". The effect of the relationship-building forays is incalculable. 2. Friendliness: Through a friendly tone, a personal question, or simply a smile, you will encourage your audience to engage in open and honest communication with you. It's important to be nice and polite. Learn to use the word "KINDLY".

3. Clarity and Concision: Good communication means saying just enough - don't say too little or talk too much. Try to convey your message in as few words as possible. Say what you want clearly and directly. If you ramble on, your listener will either tune you out or will be unsure of exactly what you want. Think about what you want to say before you say it; this will help you to avoid talking excessively and/or confusing your audience.

4. Confidence: It is important to be confident in all of your interactions with others. Confidence ensures your listener that you believe in and will follow through with what you are saying. Exuding confidence can be as simple as making eye contact or using a firm but friendly tone (avoid making statements sound like questions). Of course, be careful not to sound arrogant or aggressive. Be sure you are always listening to and empathizing with the other person.

5.Nonverbal Communication: Your body language, eye contact, hand gestures, and tone all color the message you are trying to convey. A relaxed, open stance (arms open, legs relaxed), and a friendly tone will make you appear approachable, and will encourage others to speak openly with you. Eye contact is also important; you want to look the person in the eye to demonstrate that you are focused on the person and the conversation (however, be sure not to stare at the person, which can make him or her uncomfortable). Also pay attention to other people's nonverbal signals while you are talking. Often, nonverbal signals convey how a person is really feeling. For example, if the person is not looking you in the eye, he or she might be uncomfortable or hiding the truth. Know when someone is tired or in an hurry and decide on how best you can convey your message or book another appointment

6. Avoid argument : Being a good listener is one of the best ways to be a good communicator and helps avoid argument. You can only get what you give. Keep an open mind to know how best to answer questions but avoid questions that stirs up argument. Be wise, be diplomatic and tactfully handle such scenes.

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Friday, July 14, 2017

Me just being Inspirational

You have got to Live the way Jesus lived to inspire others. The purpose for our living on Earth is to Dominate the earth,Manage it and win souls for Christ.

Monday, July 10, 2017

Simple Life Rules That Make Life Much Better

Simple Life Rules That Make Life Much Better



We only live once, and sometimes, we forget to make the best of it. Hectic schedules and busy social lifes often make us take things for granted, but life can be so much better and easier on you when you live ny these simple life 'rules'. Guaranteed you'll feel less stressed, more grateful and a lot more positivity comig your way. Let's take a look at these 5 simple life rules!

Do not worry
It's often easier said than done, but letting go of things makes you so much less worried and stress free. Sometimes it's best to let things be and trust in the fact that everything happens for a reason and things will fall into place. Whether it is about school, work or your relationship status. Often, when we let go of things and stop worrying, the unexpected happens and more good things come your way.

Don't get irritated so quickly
People nowadays are so uptight, it takes the slightest thing to get someone annoyed and worked up. Don't allow that to happen to you. You can get irritated over the smallest things, but when you see it in perspective and you realize that there are way more serious problems in the world,  will you still let something or someone get to you? Probably not!

Expect less
When you have less expectations (of others) you won't get let down as easily. Realizing that nobody is the same, there's a big chance people do things with the best intentions but they might do it in a different way than you would. And there's nothing wrong with that. When you don't expect people to think or act the same as you, you won't get dissapointed that easily. 

Give more
Giving more is such an easy thing to do to make every day a good one. You can always start with smiling to others, doing something good for someone else, helping others out more. When you give more, you will receive more. When you give others positivity and good vibes, that's what you'll receive more of too. It can be in the smallest things to make the most out of your day :)

What do you think of these life rules? Share your thoughts in the comments down below :)

Monday, June 19, 2017

Relationship and Misconceptions

Relationship and Misconceptions

Deception is to think that a man who loves you won't want to touch you. You hear Christian ladies say If he loves you, he won't even think of having sex with you as a Christian.The truth is, irrespective of a man's status or religious inclination, once he develops interest in you, the subject of wanting you is already in the wings, even though it may lie dormant...
A man who loves you will definitely want to have sex with you! In fact, the deeper and more intense the love is, the more he wants to consummate his love for you quickly. It is both a natural and a supernatural order, once the mind is there, the body naturally follows. The difference however between the carnal and spiritual man is that, while they both feel and want the same thing, the spiritual man has control over his mind and body and as such won't want to defy or defile you. The natural man has no such control measures and is liable to follow the direction of his erection.So if you have been in that relationship for a while and you are both keeping yourselves, don't assume that he is so spiritual that he can't touch you and won't touch you.
The bottom line is this: Don't be gullible to the extent that you believe nothing would happen, even if he can speak in tongues from here to the pacific. Watch out for signs- of absolute self-control and respect for you in the area of sex. I am not talking about you affirming this by saying he has never had an erection near you, in this case you even have to be sure he is not suffering from erectile dysfunction. In fact, ask him to go and do a test if your church doesn't normally request for it. Is it as serious as that? Yeah, it is very serious. Don't base your findings on the absence of erection, let it be firmly assured by the conditioning of his heart.
Is he a Christian brother? Watch out for the fear of God in his life, that's what will keep and save you both. Look out for the moment he withdraws his hands and keeps them in his pockets, look out for the periods his breathing becomes heavy and he turns away momentarily from you, look out for the times you are supposed to meet and he cancels your meeting, look out for the fear of God and the restraining ability of the Holy Spirit. In those moments, help him as you can- in demeanor and comportment, dressing and carriage, words and conversations But most importantly, help him on your knees. Help him approach heaven from your own end.Are you thinking that is much work? Actually, the benefit is more of yours than his.
Keep It Pure!

The Woman Men Desires

The Woman Men Desire..👍

1. There is a kind of woman a man will marry and he will never end up poor, not because she has millions of Dollors, Pounds or Euros but because she has the true wealth within her. She possesses wisdom.

2. There is a kind of a woman a man will marry and he will experience peace till death, irrespective of the storms of life. A calm dove.

3. There is a woman whose battles are fought on her knees and not on her mouth and her enemies are known by her,not her husband, or even her kids but the devil himself knows and is scared of her because she is a praying woman.

4. There is a woman who is not a gossiper, because of her uprightness her husband is known in the gate and sitteth among the elders of the land.

5. There is a kind woman whose hands have been trained for various Enterprise, skillful in business and never lazy. She works tirelessly to make sure her children are well fed, protected, educated and blessed.

6.There is a kind of woman who is more wealthy and educated than her husband yet very respectful and submissive. A woman who is aware that women can lead in all other sectors of lives expect the home, a seasoned Professor but yet, unconstitutionally submissive at home.

7. There is a kind of woman who knows how to handle her husband on bed and make him to be sexually satisfied and fulfilled. She doesn't use sex to punish her husband just because they had misunderstanding..She fulfils her sexual responsibilities to her husband, a true lover, she shows great commitment to marriage.

8. There is a kind of woman who manages her home well. She is hard working,focused, prayerful and respectful.. She's a great cook, co-adviser to the husband. A perfect home manager.

9. There is a kind of woman who is very supportive to her husband's visions and work tirelessly to see the fulfillment of that vision.

10. There is a kind of woman that God has made the bread winner of her family but yet she is very respectful, submissive and obedient to her husband. she's very industrious. Like Sarah, call her husband my lord...

11. There is a kind of woman who doesn't complain nor nag when her husband is misbehaving but always on her knees interceding for him until change takes place.

12. There is a kind of woman who never hears gossip neither gossip. She'll never allow any third party to come in between her and her husband especially when they have conflicts and misunderstanding.She is quick to forgive and forget. Her language is always,Am sorry,I was wrong,I didn't meant to hurt you,please forgive me👍She values her marriage more than her ego. She can do anything to save her marriage because she knows that there are other woman out there, praying and waiting for her to leave her husband's house so that they can occupy her position.

Finally, Never underestimate your power as a woman. Don't be reduced to nothing and worthless by meaningless singers out there that thinks you are men's problem and equivalent to money or sex. There is more to you than meet the eyes. Stay in God's word. Real women abound..

Be That Virtuous woman!!!STAY BLESSED

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE: TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:
TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON

1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future!

3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS

Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.

7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage.

Friday, June 2, 2017

Wisdom For Ladies

Young lady listen up;

Stop giving another girl privileges she necessarily do not deserve. The day you start to complain about another girl texting, calling, pinging and facebooking your man, you naturally equate the girl to yourself and when you do this excessively, you are saying "She's worth more than me".

No matter, how beautiful, intelligent, spiritual or even connected a lady is, she should be treated as one of those girls. Ignore her and i mean ignore her.

No matter how hard you try, if she will take him away, she will take him away.

What you should do daily is to, make your man know you more, showcase the potentials you carry and be the best you can be.

Let her be as trendy as Beyonce, wayward as Rihana, colourful as Nicki Minaj, beautiful as Genevieve or even curvy as Omotola, talented as Adele, educated as Grace Alele Williams, your man will be your man.

But the problem is; You immediately make your man see the beauty and strength in her when you start to nag/complain/bother about her.

Anytime, you see her text messages, calls, pings and inboxes, smile and say "Baby, one girl needs your help here" Do this when it becomes unavoidable (if you cannot totally ignore), I would rather wish you just lock up, and watch your man becomes an Al Jazeera correspondent, reporting every discusssion with her to you bit by bit. I swear!

Congratulations to all ladies who possess more wisdom than boobs.

You know I Cherish you...

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